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Keeping Drakes in your Duck Flock

Keeping Drakes in your Duck Flock
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I get a lot of questions every day about raising ducks. One of the most frequent duck topics I hear about has to do with dealing with drakes and their behavior. Many of those questions concern mating issues – so I’ll try to keep this post as PG as possible, but fair warning – ducks are just not PG animals.

Drakes are male ducks, and like most male animals much of their life is about mating and protecting. This can make them difficult to live with as pets sometimes. I really think that once you have a basic understanding of what your drake is up to and where he is coming from they can still make a great addition to your flock.

My drake is mating…..All. The. Time.

This is possibly the most difficult aspect of keeping drakes. Male ducks have very high sex drives, they also have a reputation of being very rough on females. If you keep multiple drakes, it can be extra difficult because often when one male notices another male mating the others will run/swim over to join in while the female is restrained. This can result in the female getting injured. Leg injuries, missing feathers from the neck, head, and back, large to small cuts from the drake’s claws or bill, eye injuries, or even death can all happen when a female is over-mated.

It may seem brutal, but this sort of behavior is very common and normal among ducks. A male might pick out their favorite female, but in most breeds the males are not monogamous. Lots of people get upset by the mating, especially when there are multiple males ganging up on one female. It is hard, but try not to put human relationship expectations onto an animal. The drakes aren’t being bad, this is simply what their instincts are telling them to do.

A drake stands by a duck pool

But why is duck mating so rough?

In short, it is to keep the duck population going. In the wild only 20-50% of ducklings will make it to adulthood. Weather conditions, lack of food or shelter, and nearly every predator will snack on ducklings – fish, amphibians, reptiles, mammals, birds of prey – all add up to rough odds for ducklings.

Of the ducklings that make it to adulthood, about 53% are male, 47% female. Adult females are also more vulnerable, they can die during gang mating, and are more vulnerable to predators while incubating eggs & raising young. This means as adults the females can afford to be a little pickier because there are more males than females.

So only the males with the brightest plumage, the best mating call & dance, will be selected by females for voluntary mating….the rest have evolved some unsavory mating practices. The females have a complicated oviduct system full of twists & chambers, she can actually eject the sperm of a male that she doesn’t want fertilizing her eggs. The males are just trying to hedge their bets by mating a recently mated female, trying to do their part in ensuring the survival of the species.

Can you neuter a duck?

I have had lots of desperate duck owners ask me about neutering drakes. I am not a veterinarian but from the research I have done you CAN neuter a drake but it does not effect his behavior, only the ability to fertilize eggs. Castration will effect his behavior but is a very invasive surgery and can be very dangerous for them so most vets will not perform this on a duck simply to curb a natural behavior.

There are hormone shots that are available, but they need to be administered frequently and are costly (and in the long run may not be great for the drake’s health). In short it is not really practical to medically altar a natural behavior in your drake, so the focus should instead be on working with his behavior and making the environment safer for the female ducks.

three ducks drink from a puddle

What can I do to protect my female ducks?

  1. Give him more females. Ideally 3 females per every male in the flock, but 4-5 females provide him plenty of options and eases the strain on each female in the flock
  2. Have a pool or pond for them. Ducks naturally want to mate in the water, it is easier on the female’s legs. They will still mate on land, but given the option, water is better.
  3. Be prepared to separate them. If you notice your female is wounded or missing a lot of feathers, your drake might need a time out so the female can heal. You can separate the wounded female if you have plenty of other females for the male. If you only have two females and you remove one to recover, the remaining female will be the only mating option. In that case, it is better to separate out the male. This can be as easy as dividing the coop with some chicken wire and giving him a small chicken wire pen outdoors.
  4. Have first aid supplies ready. Vetricyn is an antiseptic spray for light wounds. If she has deeper injuries you will need some antibiotic cream, gauze pads, and Vetrap. Click here to read about assembling a duck first aid kit. I don’t recommend using chicken saddles on ducks unless they don’t have access to swimming water. If the saddle gets wet then you just have wet, dirty, fabric laying on top of an open wound. A perfect invitation for infection.
  5. Consider keeping two separate duck flocks – a male flock and a female flock

Will my drake always be like this?

The good news is no, he won’t always be like this. Ducks in captivity can live for 10 years or more. The older they get, the less testosterone they will have and their drive will get less. The worst time will be his first mating season as a fully mature drake. Mating season for domestic ducks in the northern hemisphere usually begins around mid February and eases around July. His first season he will be full of youthful energy and the drive to reproduce.

Each season after that should get a little better. During mating season is when you are most likely to see the disturbing over mating, rough mating, gang mating. You will still see it during the other half of the year but it will be less.

a drake & a duck free ranging

Other drake concerns – aggression

While mating questions are the ones I get most, drakes can also sometimes be aggressive. In the poultry keeping world, drakes tend to be more tame than some of the other males (roosters, ganders, and turkey toms are usually the more aggressive poultry), but that doesn’t mean they don’t get aggressive. Especially during mating season when their hormones are raging they can get protective of their food, their space, their females. Sometimes they take that aggression out on their human caretakers, other animals, or even on the female ducks.

If he is getting aggressive with the female ducks outside of a mating context, it’s time to separate him. Give him his own space until he calms down.

Just like people, all ducks are different. Some handle the hormones and stresses of duck life with ease, and others get stressed out, scared, and defensive. Nearly all aggression towards human caretakers can be traced to dominance. He is trying to assert his dominance and show everyone that he is in charge, to show off how big and strong he is.

Your drake is likely to be the natural head of your duck flock – if you have multiple males there may be some squabbles over which male is the head honcho. The females, for the most part, aren’t going to be challenging the male for the role of leader. Having conquered the duck flock, your drake is going to turn his attention to the other living being they interact with daily – you. If your drake is attacking and acting aggressive towards you it’s likely because he wants you to know he is in charge. That is not ok, he needs to know that you are actually top dog or the aggressive behavior is going to continue.

a line of ducks walking

How to stop an aggressive drake

First, you need to act like a leader. Leaders don’t run away. They don’t act timidly around their challenger. If you have an aggressive drake, it can be helpful to have a long handled net near the entrance of your duck enclosure. This can be used as a deterrent to push him away from you, or can be used to easily & safely catch him for the following.

Pecking or biting is a common way that ducks establish dominance, so anytime your duck is doing this to you, it’s something to discourage. When they are young, ducklings will naturally “mouth” everything, like most young animals they explore their world with their mouth. I am not talking about that, I am talking about obviously aggressive, non curious pecking or biting. If he pecks you, you “peck” him back with your finger. Don’t go overboard, you aren’t trying to hurt him. You are just letting him know that you are actually the one in charge.

Another thing to try is picking him up and carrying him around under your arm. This is a submissive position for him. If he is trying to peck you while you carry him, use your free hand to gently hold his bill.

In the wild, male (and female) ducks establish pecking order by pinning the other to the ground. You can gently pin him down, holding his head to the ground. Hold him like that until he stops struggling – it may take a few minutes but it’s important that you not release him until he submits otherwise in his mind he has won. Again, be gentle. You are much bigger & stronger than he is! You don’t want to hurt him, you don’t want him scared of you, you just need him to respect you.

For some drakes this might be a one time thing, he will accept you as alpha and never challenge you again. Some ducks will need reminders. Be ready to give him reminders as often as he needs them. Consistency is key when dealing with an aggressive drake.

A male duck

Why keep a drake if they are this much trouble?

Unless you are intending on breeding ducks, most people only end up with a drake because ducklings can be hard to sex when they are young so they are often sold as straight run (unsexed). Likewise if you hatch your own duck eggs you have no control over what sex you get. Once you have a drake your choices are to rehome him (which can be difficult), eat him, or keep him and learn to live with his behaviors. I have multiple drakes (all from either straight run or hatching). My go to hatchery for getting pre-sexed ducks is Metzer Farms. They have a great selection of breeds and can ship as few as 2 ducklings all over the US. Click here to visit their website

Drakes can still be very lovely and wonderful pets. Once you understand the reasoning behind the behavior, once you start thinking like a duck, it’s much easier to live in harmony with your drake.

in summary:

Why is my male duck being mean?

Your drake is just following his instincts! Drakes have a very high sex drive and mating can be rough on the females. If you have multiple males it can be even worse. Many new duck owners confuse normal mating for “bullying” or “being mean”. Just because it is normal doesn’t mean there is nothing you can do. Adding more females (ideally 3-5 females for every 1 male), providing a water source (like a pool) for safer mating, and separating the females occasionally can all make for a more harmonious flock.
Beyond mating, some drakes can also get possessive of food, water, or space. If your drake is being aggressive towards humans you should act fast to reassert your dominance. You can do this by gently pinning him to the ground until he stops struggling, or by carrying him around under your arm. Consistency is key for dealing with an aggressive duck.

Keeping drakes in your duck flock - dealing with aggressive and over mating drakes

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Melissa Huml

Thursday 11th of May 2023

Hi, we recently bought a property in Colorado. It came with 9 duck, 2 of them drakes. One drake was wild and joined the flock and one is his son.

We are new duck owners and this spring there definitely has been some mating going on. One female duck, however, seems to be picked on and ostracized from the group. The back of her neck has no coverage and seems even to be raw. It is hard to tell, as they are extremely skiddish and stress when we are around.

Currently they are in an indoor/out door chicken coop. In the fall, one of the flock was snatched by a bobcat, so I am hesitant to let them roam free to the pond that is on our property.

Any suggestions would be helpful. Just today I separated this female from the group, but I am not sure if that is more harmful or it is helpful.


Wednesday 17th of May 2023

I think you are doing the right thing by separating her to allow her neck to heal. To make it less stressful to her, you can put one of the nicer females in with her. This way she won't be alone during her recovery (which can be stressful for ducks), and also it should help the two bond. Then when you release the two back into the flock they will hopefully stick together and be friends.


Tuesday 9th of May 2023

I love you're article about Drake's aggressive behavior provides a lot of insight and understanding of male duck's natural behavior.

Mertzer Farms I highly recommend, that is where I purchased my female duck and male duck. I named my drake Mr. Duck, and my female Mrs. Duck. I tried hatching two of their eggs only one survived as a female duck looks just like my drake in color, Mrs. Duck was black I assume a different type of duck.

My surviving duckling I gave her the name Baby Duck. She has a wonderful personality. She would walk right up into my house like it was nothing because thats when i had her after she hatched because it was too early to introduce her to Mrs. Duck and Mr. Duck. When the time came to introduce her Mr. Duck was so mean to her all the time he lightend up on attacking her on sight as i would supervise when they were around each other but instead of attacking her i noticed he would chase her out of their swimming area and only allow Mrs. Duck in the water or he would chase her away from their feed. Pretty much he singled her out she was oka with that she would just follow my dog around and id give her her own personalized swimming pool and kept Mr. Duck from attacking her or chasing her off. Then one day i noticed Mr. Duck trying to mate with her he was alot more agressive than he is with Mrs. Duck. Made me worry about her. Well after a year a raccoon got my Mrs. Duck left her body behind and left my other two ducks tramatized i had to repair their coop moved it to a location closer to my house and they havent gone back to that area since it happend. Its been a few months since and now they feel safe again they now put them selfs up in their coop at night i dont have to go chase them in every night or lurrer them in with treats. And Mr duck is now aggressivley mating with baby duck but at first id separate them and baby bird would seam scared like she didn't want to be alone due to the protection Mr. Duck provided. So id feel bad and put them back together. Then one morning i noticed Baby Duck not wanting to get in the water at all so id separate them into two diff swimming areas only and let them sleep together well that resulted in mateing on the ground. Baby duck has always ran from mr. Duck.... i feel so bad for her. After the trauma from Mrs. Duck, baby Duck stopped laying eggs at first then she started again and now she stopped and when she does lay they are either soft or mis shaped or super tiny or normal if she even lays one which she hasn't been every day. I have them completly separated now, my baby duck can hardly move she dont get in the water unless i bring her into the house and let her swim in my tub but even then she can hardly move she can't preen her feathers at all almost as if her neck is broke she has labored breathing im thinking respiratory infection possible but idk im outside with my ducks every day most of the day and im cleaning their coop every day or ever other day they get fresh water daily and fresh feed daily and greens as a treat. Im gonna go buy some probiotics and oystershells to help my baby bird today but wat should i do about this behavior i know ducks dont like being alone. But i dont wanna lose my baby bird and i cant get rid of my mr. Duck . Mrs. Duck and Mr. Duck were a pair they loved each other. Im all he has left well an baby bird i cant abandon him. I cant really get another duck due to the space i have yea i got a decent size back yard with a ditch but the fact im only renting a room i cant just go get another duck.


Wednesday 10th of May 2023

Is Baby Duck full grown now or is she still immature (under 5 months). If she is under 5 months you should definitely keep them separate until she is an adult and can handle mating. If you can put up a wire fence in their area to keep them separate that would be good, then they can still see each other, he just can't injure her. They will be a little stressed living separate but it's necessary until the baby can live with the drake. Ideally if you could only have two ducks they would be both the same sex but I totally understand not wanting to give up on either of them. It does sound like Baby isn't doing well though if you are saying she can't move or preen herself. This might be more than you can fix on your own. Do you have a veterinarian that can take a look at her? If she has a broken neck or leg she really should be seen right away to make sure she heals properly. Have you been giving her niacin supplements? Growing ducklings need a lot of niacin to develop strong muscles, if she hasn't been getting enought that could definitely be the cause of her lameness. You can read more about that here:


Saturday 26th of November 2022

I have a drake living in my backyard he has trouble flying. Can only get 4-6 inches off the ground. Other mallards visit I am and pm to eat and swim. He was always picked on by his brood. He was always on the outskirts of the brood. He has shelter, pond and a variety of foods. He knows is name but am I making is life difficult by keeping him. He lives in open space free to leave if chooses to leave. Anything more I should do for him?


Tuesday 29th of November 2022

awww poor buddy. Are you sure he is a Mallard? There are a few domestic breeds whose males look very similar to Mallard, but they are much bigger in size (like Welsh Harliquins or Roeuns). They are bred to be too big to be able to fly. I wonder if he is a dumped pet. Other than that, it could be this guy has some sort of deformity in his wing, which is going to make life very difficult for him indeed. Wild prey animals tend to shun others with an abnormality. They know he could attract predators and the females will be less likely to choose him as a mate. Unfortunately survival of the fittest seems to be at play here for this drake. He won't be able to migrate with the other birds even if they did accept him. On his own without the ability to fly he will find surviving the winter challenging when there is less leafy cover and not being able to fly away. Hopefully it is just a temporary injury because letting him live with a flock is the best and most natural life. But if he has some sort of permeant injury and is unable to fly, his best chances for survival is by sticking close to you. If you were able to provide him some sort of shelter - a dog house or small shed would be fine - I am sure he would really appreciate that!


Sunday 23rd of October 2022

We are first time duck owners. Our two bantam chickens hatched and raised our Welsh Harlequin ducklings. We have 3 drakes and 3 ducks with no interest in letting them mate so we’ve separated the drakes from the ducks and hens. They are almost 5 months old now. They can still see each other through part of the pen and seem happy to be near each other but Just the last few days the drakes have started fighting non stop. We’ve been trying to let them work it out but end up having to separate one from the other two because it gets pretty intense. Will the boys eventually leave peacefully separated even if the females are in sight? Or is that torture to them? I’ve tried to rehome them with no luck as most people want them for dinner. We love them and their funny personalities but also want a peaceful household. Appreciate any advice! Thank you!


Wednesday 26th of October 2022

They are maturing and it's normal that they have some squabbles as they figure out who is in charge. Being able to see the females is likely making it worse though as they will try to show off for them. For the time being I would put a tarp on the wire separating them so they can't see each other. You will probably also want to do that during the spring, a drake's first mating season is often when they are the worst behaved. Thank you for loving these little guys and trying to work with them!


Thursday 6th of October 2022

I need some help. We have a 1.5 acre pond and had 1 male and 3 female Pekin ducks. 2 of the Females sat a clutch of eggs and were then both killed by a predator leaving the drake and a single female. I was able to rescue 2 of the hatchlings from the nest and now they are about 9 weeks and doing so well. But one of the babies is obviously a boy and when we attempted to introduce the ducklings to the older drake and hen, the drake was completely aggressive without letup to the boy duckling. We have tried to give them some space and time to work it out but it has not gotten any better. I have been trying to research what to do but have not got the specific advice I'm looking for. I need to know if its likely that the older drake will accept the presence of another drake if we were to get more females so that there was a proper ratio - I've read around 4 hens per drake. I also am wanting to see if our 1.5 acre pond would support that many pekin ducks ok. Its on 20 acre property. So if we get more females would they become one flock or if we divided them up would the older drake accept another flock and would the size of the property and pond support them all? Any advice would be helpful. I'm terribly attached to the ducklings we rescued.


Wednesday 12th of October 2022

It is really sad and frustrating when your older ducks won't accept the newcomers. It's hard to say for certain if he will eventually accept the baby because just like humans every duck has their own personality. But in my experience I have found that eventually most do come around. We have three drakes right now and when we make an addition to the flock the eldest head drake is always a pain about letting the newcomer in (for both new males and new females). While it might only take the other drakes a week or so to adjust to the new face, the head drake has taken a month or sometimes even longer to accept the newcomer into the flock and not chase him off. At 9 weeks your ducklings are at least nearing full size. I would suggest you keep them separated by a wire fencing but in the same area so they can see each other but not get to each other. Let them live like that for a few weeks until the drake seems calm. Then begin letting them out together. There is going to be some fighting, with some ducks there just isn't avoiding that. As long as everyone is getting access to the food & water and no one is bleeding sometimes you have to just let them work it out. Getting more females will certainly help the situation, but honestly if he is having issues with the ducklings he is likely to have issues with new females too at first. Good luck!

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